When Pregnancy Memories Are Unpleasant

Hello.

I met a friend who is also pregnant. Had a chat, and shared some thoughts. From the conversation, I can conclude that, pregnancy may be unpleasant experience to one if:

1. You have to pay for your medical and pregnancy check up fees.

2. You have to buy your own maternity dresses, undies.

3. You have to pay for your baby items.

4. You still have to do the chores like you are not pregnant. (the worst; toilet cleaning)

5. You have to go and find any food you craving for.

6. Your hubby is a heavy smoker. (guess, he is rather spend his money to buy the cigarettes than to pay for your or your baby needs)

I pity all the pregnant women who have to face this kind of things. It must be very hard to dealt with, as we are designed to be more fragile in this stage. To deal with the emotional roller-coaster as well as the physical changes, i tell you, it is not that easy. Thus, if you have such an understanding husband who take roles and responsibilities as he should be, it will be very great then. You don't have to think twice to get pregnant again.

To all hubbies,
Learn to appreciate more. Especially if you get not less from your wife. Imagine if she's not around, can your life will be as comfortable like now? Sometimes you should put your bloody ego away.


May Allah Strengthen Us.
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